40 [m4f] Something light and fun #est

I’ve done the hot and heavy, deep feelings involved, in person and online, thing before and it’s worn me down. And to be honest, it ends up hurting too much when it ends. I’m still sad over one, you know?

So I’m changing my approach. I am pretty easy going by nature, so that’s what I’m after. Someone to chat with and get to know, at our own pace, with no pressure or expectations. Great conversations, laughter, commiseration, just someone to share the ups and downs of life with in a unique way. With some flirty fun along the way.

If that interests you, here’s a little about me. Married with 2 kids, 3 cats, and a dog. I love being a dad to all of them. I love taking pictures and the highlight of my day would be sharing a cool one with you. I care as much about my mental health as my physical health, and do my best to work hard on them both. You’ll often find me taking long walks, lightly daydreaming or deep in thought.

I like to read, fantasy and mental health. I play old video games from my childhood. I watch the same old comfort shows over and over. I try not to take myself too seriously. I love sending sappy drunk texts. I love getting to know people.

I have a cute nerd vibe. Glasses, messy brown hair, slowly turning grey, green eyes, and a cute dimple.

I’ll leave it there, I’ve written here before and they’re alway too long. But I hope to hear from you and that we get to connect!