need advice on like how to handle this man

So when I turned 20 I dated this man I was really lonely and just moved into my first apartment I'm 21 now,
I dated this man for like 8 months he was like 29 and during that time he got me drunk every single day and did evil weird stuff to me while I wasn't conscious
i would just wake up and brush it offf
But one time I checked his phone it looked so scary like dark w3b just I can't even think about it
after that I stopped being so intimate with him but kept the relationship going idk why then he did something that just made me break it off completely I was just numb to be honest
i think of those months it literally was a blur and I only remember us having s3x like not that much but
I checked his phone he has over 300 videos of me
and he's one of those incels and all he does is fawn over just young woman it's a fetish to him and bad mouths older woman on this private account and just woman and general and r@cist also just so much more .. it was hidden from me really good
point is I was really blind... think I just wanted love ect or attention idk
but he still has that booklet of videos and think he's selling them or idk it's just nasty
I went to the cops about it
But I deleted the only videos I had with me and him
Literally fucked myself
I just couldn't have those on my phone they were horrible
But now I have no proof sigh
also I had a friend come over during the relationship while me and her were both sleep he raped her and like she woke up and reported him and cried ect ...
That was the end of the relationship.
I made him pay her ect and told her she should follow through ect with the cops and she did but it went nowhere.

advice ? Inbox me