Is this guy I’m talking to red pilled?

I, F[19] am talking to this guy M[23] and I’m feeling like he has a redpilled mindset. I’ve noticed so far that here and there he will say something super off. Such as asking if I’m a “traditional woman” (I am anything but the part), or telling me that he likes that I am “feminine and submissive” because I listen to him (I am also anything but the part, just a good listener and partner).

He has extreme anxiety, I am in school for psychology and know a thing or two to help. I have zero problem helping. Here’s the problem, I’ve noticed he will withhold appropriate amounts of affection, given we haven’t been talking that long. He very much stresses that “he has a lot to offer” and essentially he is trying to figure out if I do too. Now bear in mind that he has previously told me that I am out of his league. So he is trying to figure out if I have anything to offer while I already am offering my time, affection, and knowledge early on.. and he is not.

I’m wondering if this is redpill shit, if he’s just insecure, if he thinks I’m naive and he’s one of those slightly older guys who goes for younger girls to manipulate, or if he’s all of this at once! How do you think I should handle this?