Fourth Wing, ACOTAR or Throne of Glass?

The title basically. Which one of these do i read first? I usually prefer less romance heavy books but im aware theyre all romantasy except maybe throne of glass because i havent really looked into it that much. So which one of these has an actual good romance i can get invested in and a good plot to go along with it? Id also like the fmc to not be insufferable and not suffer from the 'im not like other girls' trope.