Sufferings of men

Im posting this because as a man i feel we need to have a conversation about sufferings of men in india

im not trying to undermine the sufferings of women or transgenders but this post is about men

firstly we need to acknowledge 'ladke rote nahi' is a very toxic statement this is not making us strong rather it is only contributing to higher suicide rate in men (u can refer to ncrb data for this)

secondly we should remove the idea that men cannot be victims of sexual violence and only men are perpetrators because in reality men are victims too (u can look these up there are multiple cases)

but in india rape laws are not gender neutral which reinforces the idea men cannot be victims

thirdly in divorces (ik alimony laws are gender neutral) but if u look at grounds for filing divorce those are not gender neutral and it is heavily skewed

im posting this for a healthy discussion and listen to solutions of these problems

if u saw this post and ur first instinct is to start a gender war in the comments i genuinely feel sorry for u hope u get help asap