36 M4F - EST, compatibility test!

I saw one of these floating around and it stuck with me… so here’s my version.

36, English, married, two kids, living in MST. Life is full, structured, and very normal on the surface. This is… not that.

If you like a bit of honesty mixed with self-awareness (and a mild sense of “this might be a bad idea”), play along.

Answer the questions, keep your score, and tell me what you got.

1. Why are you here?
   A) Curious, passing time (5 pts)
   B) Missing something… not sure what yet (10 pts)
   C) I want connection, not just distraction (15 pts)

2. Communication style
   A) Sporadic, when I remember (5 pts)
   B) Consistent but life comes first (10 pts)
   C) I like daily conversation, even small moments (15 pts)

3. Replies
   A) One-word answers are efficient (0 pts)
   B) I try, but sometimes low effort slips in (5 pts)
   C) I actually engage and build conversation (15 pts)

4. What matters more to you?
   A) Quick spark, instant chemistry (5 pts)
   B) Banter + chemistry over time (10 pts)
   C) Emotional connection first, chemistry grows from that (15 pts)

5. Depth tolerance
   A) Keep it light, no overthinking (5 pts)
   B) A mix of light and meaningful (10 pts)
   C) I like conversations that go somewhere (15 pts)

6. Time & availability
   A) Very limited, mostly late nights only (5 pts)
   B) Somewhat flexible, but inconsistent (10 pts)
   C) I can make space regularly throughout the day (15 pts)

7. Distance / logistics
   A) Only interested if local (0 pts)
   B) Prefer closer but open (10 pts)
   C) Connection matters more than geography (15 pts)

8. Pace
   A) Fast, intense, burn bright and see what happens (5 pts)
   B) Natural pace, see where it goes (10 pts)
   C) Slow burn, build something real over time (15 pts)

9. Intent
   A) Just flirting / distraction (5 pts)
   B) Let’s see what happens (10 pts)
   C) I’m open to something deeper if it clicks (15 pts)

10. Self-awareness check
    A) This is just harmless fun (5 pts)
    B) This is complicated, but manageable (10 pts)
    C) This is complicated… and that’s kind of the point (15 pts)

Scoring:

0–60 - We’d probably fizzle quickly
61–100 - There’s something there, but inconsistent
101–130 - Likely good chemistry
131–150 - Dangerous territory… in a good way

If you made it this far and scored higher than you expected… same.

Tell me your score, or don’t - but I’m curious what kind of people this finds.

Let’s see.