25 [M4F] Europe/Anywhere - I'm sick of doing whatever I want, I need a girl to hit me for not listening.

To start things off, I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship. I'd be more than happy if it leads there, but I don't have that expectation from the very beginning and I don't mind if we only stay as friends. I'm looking for someone I can really connect with, share my day to day life, vent, listen and just invest myself in someone who's willing to put the same effort back.

I'm a 25 year old dude living in Finland. I was born in Romania and moved here when I was 7. I can speak both languages although my Romanian is very rusty.

I'm currently employed, I work part time as a car mechanic. I did 4 years of med-tech engineering only to realize I despise it. I've been meaning to go back to university for another engineering degree but I'm making decent money right now so I'll probably work for a few years and save up.

I'm a somewhat introverted guy (INFP-T). I open up a bit slow but once I'm comfortable my personality might get a little heavy. Certified "silly" guy. I don't take things too seriously (unless it's serious). I like to make people laugh, be funny. Depending on the person I can be a little clingy and overly affectionate but I do respect boundaries and can take no for an answer without extra drama.

I'm a short lil guy, 170cm to be exact. (I don't mind if you're taller 😌) I have dirty blond hair, blue eyes and slim leaning towards fit physique. I've been actively hitting the gym for 2-3 months now and I'm making really good progress...preorder while you can or something 😭 I am more than happy to share a picture of myself after we've talked a bit.

I'm a pretty big homebody. I mostly hang out with my mates in our neighborhood. Otherwise the few times I leave my house outside is for work or groceries. I'd rather get food and drive around mindlessly at night than go to a club or something. I'm not like other dudes fr fr. I rarely drink alcohol, maybe 3-4 times a year. I also don't mind weed as pretty much everyone around me is a user. Anything more is a big no.

I used to be big into games but I cut down to like 1% of what it used to be 😞 sad life of getting old and employed and stuff like that. I still enjoy a bit of it with the right company. I'm also a great cook. I see this gets thrown down a lot but this has been my passion since I was a little kid. My mom ran her own restaurant by herself for 10+ years so I learned from the best 😎 I can't bake to save my life so maybe we could compliment each other aha.

Now, most importantly. I am a huge pet lover, I have a cat of my own. He's a bit over 1 years old. He is evil and likes biting and being an ass but he's literally my son I love him sm 😭

I like to invest my time in other people and I expect the same back. I don't want a chatgpt conversation where all we do is text back and forth. I like doing activities together depending on what we are limited to. Talking on the phone, facetime, playing a game together. Maybe watching a movie/show. Sending pictures throughout the day of events etc... of course these things come with time and I don't expect this to happen on the first week.

If you do message me please introduce yourself a little :>