Stopping breastfeeding

I am planning to wean my 14 month boy (from breastfeeding), we are also moving to a new home soon (just mentioning because lots of changes for him) I want your advice on

- how to start?

- did you begin with night weaning or daytime first? (he’s currently waking every 3–4 hours to feed, so I’m worried about how he’ll sleep without it)

- what alternatives to breastfeeding worked for you at night (e.g. rocking, holding, walking, etc.)?

- what did you say to your little one during the day when they wanted to breastfeed, in a way that felt calming and gentle? simply I want a gentle way to do it all

Thanks