It's not been the first time I've had people from different communities encourage me to join their NSFW communities. Firstly, I don't even live in the areas they want me to join. Secondly it just makes me feel used. For example because I get so much attention/popularity here it makes me feel like I'm being used as a means to boost their community. 

The person here I don't know them but I later realised they'd messaged me on two of my old accounts which I deleted in the past encouraging me to join their community. Here they state that it "may" be a rival of Chatswapmeetdevon but the reality is why would I join a rival community? Why are people using my popularity here to try and drag me into situations that don't involve me?

I've spoken to most of them mods here at some point and have always been treated well. I don't like it when people try to use me for their own agenda. In the messages I'm really polite to said person because that's who I am. However, it annoyed me when I eventually clocked on what was happening. 

Just be careful anyone who is popular here if you get messages from people you don't know asking you to join their communities. It's usually because the intention may be self serving (using your popularity to boost their community). Even if they are aware that it would make you look disloyal to people who'd been good to you.

  
I didn't join said persons community because I don't live in that area, I'm not going to be disloyal to mods who have been good to me, I have no interest in being used as a means to boost someone else's community and I'm not interested in being dragged into a situation that doesn't involve me. People need to build up their communities by not trying to steal other members of other communities. Snakey 🐍 behaviour. I'm nice but I'm not naive. Said person has been blocked.

  
I've covered their messages because they were talking about personal things and I don't reveal information like that because I value people's privacy. I just think snakey 🐍 behaviour should be highlighted. I enjoy being here, I'm not going to risk being kicked out or falling out with good people to benefit someone else's agenda. People need to find their own sexy Asian sub members rather than trying to steal other people's. Just a thought 🤔 Trying to use people to serve ones own agenda isn't very kind thing to do when it would bring about consequences for an innocent person. Due to the things said I suspect the person was paying a lot of attention to my posts and comments section because they contacted me on the basis of being a formerly prolific poster yet that had been discussed by another person in comments towards me so a little odd really. 

  


I hate it when people make me feel used