does anyone know anything about the queer or trans pop in philly or bmore?

I'm planning on moving out from DE to either bmore or philly to make friends and actually live for once (i just came out as trans in early December as a 28 yr old grad student and phd students are boooorrringgg) but unsure which to prioritize. and lol idk where to ask honestly. i go to concerts constantly (mainly breakcore, hyperpop, punk, hiphop, etc) and like food and alt fashion, so idk if I can be picky about subcultures lol