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40[m4f]South Carolina/Online - Somewhere Between Thoughtful and Unhinged

NSFWM4F South Carolina / Online

Pretty sure that post title could be the title of my biography but whatever. 🤪

Good afternoon. On this fine Friday evening I am seeking someone who can appreciate conversation that may lack.... structure. Someone who enjoys thought and exchange. One minute we might be giving each other a hard time, the next drafting ideas about what it is to be human in the universe, and the next talking music (I do love talking music). In other words neurodivergent sprawl with a vibe.

Like many posts will say, I love music. Especially metal and punk (I just found a 220+ hour playlist of all songs on Fat Wreck Chords label so that's pretty much just where I am right now). But I'm down to exchange recommendations or talk lyrics.

I spend a lot of time thinking...about, well, everything really. Think philosophy but without the pretentiousness. Ya know like perception, how people work, systems, random ideas, pattern recognition - that sort of thing.

Broadly speaking I just want engaging conversation. It can be short term, it can be long term, I'm not one to situate something into a box (which also explains the NSFW label because I'm not pursuing anything specific but I'm not avoiding topics either).

Important - I can talk about politics but I'd rather not. It's exhausting. I consider myself what I call a Pragmatic Progressive. If you don't support equality and equity for fuckin everyone, I don't support you talking to me.

Otherwise, if this seems like it might be up your alley then by all means hit my chat. I think I'm gonna order some Chinese and chill with my dog for a bit then IDK what yet.

And for everyone else - I hope your evening and weekend are dope AF.

Take care.

Posted May 1, 2026, 9:18 PM UTC · locked

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