I don’t know if i should give flowers to ex after her performance

guys pls help i don’t know what would b the right thing to do in this situation

l backstory: me and my ex gf (of 17 months) broke up about 2 months ago, but we decided to stay in each others lives, heal and maybe try again in the future. yesterday she told me she wanted to go no contact for a while so she could really focus on healing instead of been tempted to call or msg me all the time. I said that was completely fair, and i would do that for her. We both made the decision that i would be the one to have her blocked, then unblock and message her after some time (2 weeks), to check on how she was doing and if she needed more time.

Shes in theatre, and tonight i’m going to watch to the closing show that she has a pretty big role in. 3 day ago (before no contact) i started making her paper flowers to give to her afterwards. i haven’t finished them, i currently have 3 hours before i leave for the play, should i or should i not finish them so i can give them to her? or is it best to leave it be? (btw she has to give me something back she borrowed, so we will be seeing eachother anyway)

if ANYONE is seeing this can i please get a simple yes to flowers or no i’m so stuck.

Posted May 1, 2026, 9:22 PM UTC

11
Loading comments…