Toilet tissue bits stuck even after showering

i have this problem where even when I wash down there toilet tissue bits are still stuck down there like I can still see them on my towels after drying off and everything I tried different ways to wash my vagina to get this to stop like washing with rags, soap and water, only water, but the only way Ive stopped this is douching but that’s really bad for vagina health i feel like im the only person that goes through this I never heard anyone else talk about this I also feel like if I don’t remove it all the way it causes Oder to get worse does anyone have any tips for this?