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the boomer normies at my workplace treat me better than libs do wtf

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>be semi-stealth ftm (stealth at work and to acquaintances, but not friends)

>work with boomer normies, some of whom are religious, but none are the rabidly transphobic type

>accidental admin info leak at work causes a few people at work (like 3 out of thousands) to know my legal gender/agab

>leak is controlled and shut down so no more people know, work processes changed

>the people who figured I was trans just tell me to try changing legal gender (haven't done so as it is difficult and expensive where l live, can't afford it yet)

>otherwise go on like nothing changed

>they still gender me as a man and treat me as one

>one or two seem to straight up forgotten I'm trans

Meanwhile

>socially get outed behind my back to a bunch of acquaintances "because it's no big deal, like everyone trans is proud to be trans right"

>get asked "what are your pronouns" by people who found out I'm trans, even though I look and sound enough like a man to pass to normies, and have a male name

>get asked "what are your pronouns" by libs who are straight up transvestigating at this point, because I've literally seen them also suspect some cishons and cispoons I know of being trans

>"umm asking pronouns is just to make sure I respect someone's gender identity since you never know!" except that curiously they never ever ask the 6'4 200lbs former navy seal, towards which it is always "sir", "he", "him", "boss", "yes sir"

I know it is ignorance but I swear that this is ignorance borne of sneeds being the dominant narrative in progressive circles now. At this point, this is ironically enabling some 'libs' to be more stringent about gender norms (including about some unchangeable physical traits) than even a bunch of religious boomer normies are

Posted May 2, 2026, 4:12 AM UTC

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