Is it ok to hook up with a dusty if that’s all he’s good for?

I met this guy off hinge but just based off his pics and initial texts I had a feeling he was performative and full of it and he was.

Before the first date even happened he offered to pay for my uber there to impress me I guess but almost didn’t follow through it on it until I didn’t answer his texts and declined his call. We still met and the date was chill, I found him very attractive.

The second date was the following weekend he took me to a very expensive restaurant in the city and dropped like $300 on the dinner which I thought was a bit excessive lol he was asking how much he should tip I guess so I’d look at the receipt and be impressed lol by this point I feel a bit love bombed bc he’s calling me baby and basically future faking but I’m having fun.

That same night we made out at the restaurant, then in his car, then at the bar we went to after and then after I gave him head and almost decided on having sex but I said we should wait.

Following weekend the Third date almost doesn’t happen bc I text him 3 hours prior to ask if it’s still on and he says he forgot to tell me the plans which I think was bs. We meet anyway and he asks if i want to do a weekend getaway soon, I said we should wait till we’re official. After I give him head again.

For the following two weeks we keep texting as usual tho we don’t meet for two weeks until I’m like ??? And he says after a baseball game we’ll meet then he flaked on me last minute saying he got too drunk.

Long story short I try ending it and he tries to talk me out of it. He offers to meet me the following weekend and then when we ft he says he never said we were meeting that he didn’t set it in stone. At this point I’m so stuck on anticipating seeing after three weeks that now I’m trying to end things and I can’t and I’m stuck in a loop.

We stopped talking and I’m just wondering since I enjoyed the chemistry, if In the future it would be wrong to hook up with him since that seems to be all he’s good for?