So done with my parents& religion(ofc)

Soooooo where do I even start . I NEVER was religious since the day I was born probably. I was born into Sikhism. That means I had long hairs and would have to wear turban most of the time. I hate all religions equally. 2 years ago, when I decided to cut my hairs... My mother's affair took me to the saloon and then I basically got a haircut-not impulsive but it was very disregarded and I was told by my mother she doesn't like me... This doesn't affect me at all cuz I also don't like anyone in my family. My mother is basically having an affair and my father is heavily alcoholic yet they can recite each verse that talks about truth,fidelity and emotional intelligence. Wow HYPOCRISY. Moreover, there's a proverb in my language that they use ALOT of time which basically means being arrogant, ignorant, and moreover angry about God. They throw that proverb ALOT of times... It's like they are trying to taunt me and IM SICK. they think I'm arrogant and mischief and black sheep of this family.i want to leave them and yeah like basically wanting to go no contact with them once I'm financially free.

I feel like the argument of morals, evil existence and pain suffering on earth COMPLETELY proves the NOT EXISTENCE OF GOD(s). Yep. No going back. And moreover, the newer discovery(whatteva) of the SOURCE(?)/ yin and yang kinda god just proves the dumbies will really come up with anything to be in control of something so big and powerful at any given point of life. I have stopped debating god. Moreover it is not safe in a country I live too.

For me, it's the need of control in my life. I NEED TO CONTROL EVERY SINGLE STEP OF MY LIFE. period. And yes, these are my childhood issues cuz I grew up with like two father's(?) one legal and one illegitimate. And I was never given a choice even for basic stuff like my clothes and all let alone any big decisions. I'm last year of being a teen. I'll be turning legal soon. Can't wait to get out. Get a job. And then LEAVE THEM.(evil laugh).

Thanks for my rant.. I kinda know some answers to how my future career trajectory, marriage,relationships, children or not to be. I have them figured out.

But I have these questions,

1. Do ever get called arrogant or just angry or even satanic cuz of your ideology and how do u deal with it?

2. Any way to explain my parents- like I know they are religious just because of societal reasoning and don't actually beleive in it.?

3. What about partners(friends and romantic relationships). Is it something to be concerned about. I know I'm not going to befreinds with extreme religious ppl but still to other normies, how much is religious ideology important?

I'm not debating anything. I am atheist. Just want some answers from my fellow atheists...