I like discussing masturbation

I like when I post and I can discuss masturbation with people in the comments. But what do I have to do to stop getting rude, vulgar dms that further fuel my misandry? Do I have to be a bitch? Sometimes I’m wanna just respond and say “fuck you, go to hell” or something but then I’m scared they are just gonna take that as an invite to keep talking. I really like posting and talking to people about what turns is on and stuff (it’s really fun!) but sometimes I don’t wanna post on here bc I get so many fucking disgusting dms. Idk if it’s appropriate to vent like this on here. I might delete this later.