21 [M4F] #Midwest #Online Sweet dom on the hunt for his person!

Hello! Thanks so much for clicking on my post! This may be a bit of a long read so I apologize for the word vomit in advance. Though, if the level of detail I provide in this initial post intrigues you, you may be just the type of person I’m interested in :)

About me: I’m a 21 year old College student from the Midwest! I’m from the Kansas City area but am currently a little ways away from home for college. I go back and visit my family and pets every so often though! As of right now, I’m a political science major, but the idea is to change that here soon. I’ve kinda had a rough time at University, which has been a stark difference compared to my time in highschool. I used to be a rockstar student, but depression sorta ate me alive once I got to college 😅 A lot of that was fueled by the fact that I wasn’t super sure what I wanted to do! That being said, I’m planning to swap my major to environmental science with the goal of practicing something within the realm of environmental law. I wanna save the earth!

I work part time at a craft store and I absolutely love it. I get to help all of the sweet old ladies find their yarn and I get to cut their fabric. It’s just the best ☺️ When I’m not panicking about school or at work, you can probably find me knee deep in video games! I play a lot of League of Legends; perhaps too much league of legends 😭 It’s okay though, we’re workin on it. I also play plenty of other games when I’m in the mood, so I’m not overly one-dimensional. I’m a big pokemon nerd too! That aside, I also watch plenty of TV/Anime, I love hanging out with my dogs, and I’m definitely liable to doomscroll tiktok from time to time.

Seeing as my hobbies are a bit limited, I’ve been doing work to expand on them and I plan to do a lot more! I’ve been getting more and more into Crochet since around November of last year and I really enjoy that. It’s certainly my craft of choice 🙂‍↕️ My goal is to try and get involved in a Crochet group at my school this semester!

As for my appearance, I’m 5’11 with short-ish light brown hair and hazel/brown eyes. I’ve got a pretty slim build and could definitely put on some weight, but I sorta like how I look and I think my self esteem would be in shambles if I didn’t at least like my appearance, so I’m hoping to stay a skinny king 😭 That being said, I do have kinda a fat/baby face and I’ve been called cute quite a bit. I don’t mind it at all! I’m sure you’ll see what I mean if we get to talkin!

I like to think of myself as a big sweetheart, valuing consideration very highly, and I think I’m looking for someone who matches that energy. Someone who is overly kind to service workers and mindful of those around them. I also like to think I’m at least a little bit funny (humble, I know) and I think the general consensus from the people I surround myself with is that I’m real fun to be around. I cherish this so so much.

I’m a bit of a homebody, some have ventured as far as to call me a recluse, but I blame that on my limited social battery and introverted nature. That’s certainly not to say I’d have a hard time maintaining a conversation or responding to messages. I’m very good about that actually. I’ve just got so much love to give and I need to find the right person to give it to!

I’m interested in finding my person. I know it’s silly to take to reddit to find my soulmate, but going out to the bars sounds absolutely dreadful, so this is the next best thing (maybe? probably not idk). My standards aren’t incredibly high and I don’t mean to intimidate you with all of these words and all of this detail. I’m generally hunting for someone around my age and stage in life, but outside of that, I’m not super particular. I don’t really have a preference for body type and you can be anywhere in the US! I don’t mind online, but the goal is definitely to move to in person eventually. I’m such a sweet, kind, and considerate soul and I like to think i’ve got a very understanding and open mind.

I don’t want to get into kink too much right away, as I think it’s better if we have a more natural conversation about it. It’s more fun that way 😋 To juxtapose my soft personality, I can be kind of a sadist sometimes when kink is involved, so I don’t want to mislead anybody. Perhaps I’m a bit of a freak 😬 As far as a dynamic is concerned, I’m not especially picky! I’m open to a whole lot. I’ve had more experience with TPE adjacent dynamics in the past, so that’s what I gravitate toward most often, as that’s what I’m most accustomed to. However, that isn’t to say that it needs to be a certain way, and I’d definitely love to chat more about this!

I’ve been looking for my person for a while now, and I’m wanting someone that I can commit and devote myself to. I want someone to chat with, care for, and overall, I want a deep connection. I’m looking for a partner: a best friend really. I’m looking for someone that I can drop all of my friends and move away for (this is a joke!) I’m sure you get what I mean :)

Okay I’m pretty sure that does it for me? I’m not entirely certain. If there’s something I missed or you’ve got any questions, don’t be afraid to shoot me a message and ask! I promise I don’t bite :) I look forward to chatting with you!!