Did your family make fun of you as a child?
👇👇POSTED AS-IS FROM NIGERIA SUB, BUT ADD YOUR FEEDBACK BASED ON YOUR COUNTRY / CULTURE
i’m looking to know how this affects people who grow up in Nigerian homes - at home or abroad . One of the things I’ve noticed within Nigerian homes is that the parents , grandparents, aunties, uncles, they usually use poor words - abuses really - to address their children. Big head, trouble maker, bed wetter - ofcourse, using their own languages, which can sometimes feel even more abusive than those words said in plain English. Sometimes the abuse is not in words, but in actions - we don’t need to talk about the capital punishment culture.
Did you grow up in such a home? And if so, did it affect you and how so? Is it something that impacted your teen years and maybe even your adult years? I’d love to hear real examples.
Posted May 2, 2026, 4:30 AM UTC