I am a bit confused. Help me

So I am seeing this guy for AM. Really lovely guy. He has been super nice to me and been very helpful. Almost like a dream come true. He is like I will always take care of you, always help you etc. I told him that I have not done a lot of household work then he said that he will do it and that I shall not worry about it because he anyways does it. So on paper he is a very good guy.

I am on the other hand not very talkative, i haven't seen a lot of happy marriages in my life so I am always sceptical of AM. I told him that I will be suspicious of him and always expect honesty out of him.

So we started talking but our of nowhere he started random fights. Literally no reason at all. Like I told you everything about him but you haven't. I am an honest guy, I am humble etc like bro let me see for myself. He was like if you leave me I'll probably be dead. I think we have soulmate connections etc. I have told him that I don't too uch believe in these things. He is very dharmik. Like very spiritual but not religious. I have literally net him 5 times and all he talked of was respect, family and spirituality. I haven't spoken about God so much since January as he has in last 5 meetings. I feel off.

Especially about the random fights. I stopped talking to him because for me peace is much more important than AM etc. though he realised that he was at fault but I don't know. It seems very off that he dragged a small topic to such magnitude.

I feel off about him but I don't know. Like he says I'll die if you divorce me etc. so I don't quite care because that's odd that I so much off him in 5 days.

I think he overthinks too much. I have always tried to help him when he is down but I don't know if will learn. He said that I was self centered in the heat of the moment. I don't mind others judging me because free will but c'mon man you are literally shoving down my throat that I am a perfect partner. How is that even possible to decide in 5 days? I have told him to not be so sure of me because you can't truly know a person unless you are really married.