24[F4M] Looking for a Specific Dynamic MELBOURNE

Sorry not sorry for the longer post, trying to weed out as many people who don't fit the bill as possible. Posted on reddit before and ended up with like 200 responses with about 99% of them being from people that were the opposite of what I was looking for. Do not message me if you do not fit what I'm looking for.

**About me**
24 years old, (25 in a few months if that's important to you) queer, polyamorous, sub. Medium experience in kink, sexually adventurous, practice safer sex. Tall, alternative, curvy/chubby. I enjoy cooking, ethical true crime, and Stardew Valley. In a dynamic with a really great Dom <3

I'm communicative, have a very clear idea of what I'm into and not into, I'm also willing to try a lot of things out (within reason).

**What I'm looking for**
Looking for a man to engage in a ddlg type dynamic. I'm not entirely sure what that looks like but we can figure it out together. Some basics however are: no ADBL, no age regression, and for the love of god do not be weird in my DMs.

Some non negotiable things:
I am not willing to budge on these, even just a little bit. Don't waste my time and do not expect me to be nice to you if you try anyway.

•	be experienced, both with kink and polyamory   
•	ideally aged 30-35, but willing to talk to people 27-37   
•	queer   
•	live in Melbourne   
•	willing to use condoms and get tested   
•	be open to chatting online for 2 weeks as an absolute minimum, good chance it'll be longer than that, meeting strangers from the internet is scary 

Some of my preferences:
• also be alternative
• have your own place (my living situation means I can't have people over, if you can't either we'll have to work that out together)
• bearded / hairy

Absolute no's:
• Younger than 27
• Older than 37
• Submissive
• Not living in Melbourne
• Inexperienced
• Couples
• "Hey how are you" and nothing else
• AI messages / profiles
• Booktok Doms
• Conservatives

Tell me a little about yourself when you message me. Don't go into my messages penis first. I'm not looking to rush anything and it's going to take time to develop the trust that is necessary to build a dynamic like this. Tell me what you'd enjoy in a dynamic like this.

PS- if you're on fetlife let me know your username so I can stalk your page lol