Need life advice from experienced and Job holders (residing abroad/home) all
Well Let's start. I am a software engineer recently laid off. Graduated last year with CGPA-3.6+(public uni).
So I have 6 months of experience.
In my family, I only have my mom. Father died almost 7 years ago. I don't have that fund to go abroad.
Here is the thing I have a nephew-cuzin circle but now it is broken one of them has gone to south korea for higher studies. As time goes by the family(relatives) are not the same as before. My cuzins have gone abroad (50% is abroad). So as a result, some of my cousins and relatives are pushing me to go abroad.
But I am facing a crucial decision and that is I have to leave my mom alone. I wont know when I can bring her abroad if I get a scholarship and go there to study. It is true that without a govt job staying in BD is kind of a loss in the long run especially in the software department.
I don't have any siblings and also it is true that the relatives are right as 50% of them are right now in abroad(my cousins). Now I can't make a decision on what to do. I feel like I have been dropped to the ocean. So experienced and elder brother and sisters, what are your suggestions. I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel helpless.
Posted May 2, 2026, 2:01 PM UTC