Needing some advice?

Long story super short I've been w my husband for 5 years. The last 3 years he's been *getting there* rather quickly in (that in itself doesnt bother me, because i prefer quickies anyways) the problem is ... I'm starting to really not feel satisfied. When this happens he's usually done and goes to sleep. A few months ago I expressed it kinda bothers me that he doesn't try to .. help me? Last night it happened again and he's like "I'll get your vibrator for you" :( which I am glad he offered that option, i really am but I just wanted him? I'm so tired and frustrated with relying on my rose. I'm starting to feel defeated. What should I do? is there something else we can look into? I don't even know how to bring this up to him again:(