30 [M4F] #NYC taking a chance to find connection

Married man with child and would like to keep it like so. I would like to keep our relationship private yet playful.

A bit about myself, I enjoy talking and learning about others interest and hobbies. I love cats and enjoy cooking ( used to be a kitchen chef a while back).

I am slim and do not eat very much but indulge in coffee. I do not actively hit the gym or anything but from many years of competitive training I have an athletic build. I have a graduate degree if it matters and can solve a Rubik’s cube as my party trick.

I am attracted to someone who is funny and intelligent. I tend to like someone who is athletic as well and is a competitive person. If you are in similar relationship situation that is a plus for common ground.