Kink exploring

I recently became an online slut, but I never truly experimented with myself and just recently got into it. My trainer keeps asking for my kinks, and some of the men I help do to..

But I truly, don't know my kinks, I'm a virgin and focus online pleasure for anonymous men right now and never really experimented sexually with myself fully till a few weeks ago when I finally decided to try. But I'm not sure how to explore my kinks, figure out what turns me on or even figure out what makes me cum.

I know I like being told what to do and controlled. But its kinda just like a feeling down there for a few seconds, makes me a little wet then it's gone. And I never can get horny enough to be able to keep going long enough to cum. I'm not sure if something is wrong with me.. I'm 18F just starting her sexual journey and her journey of being an online slut, and I was curious if anyone has any tips or recommendations on things I can try to find my kinks, be able to cum and maybe even increase my sex drive.

I don't feel a need for sex or to get off, all I want is to pleasure the man I work for but it gets me thinking, as a good slut, if they ask me to cum for them, or what my kinks are. How can I fulfill my task if I don't know?

Any advice?