45 [M4F] #NY/NJ - Dominant Executive seeking submissive muse…

I am hoping this post finds its way to a curious but equally committed adventure seeking dynamic partner. I am a 45/M succesful executive from the NJ/NY area who is looking for a new D/s connection.

First off, I pride myself on not being a fly by night Dom. No expectations that someone will submit because they replied on some BDSM group. Control and submission is a process of trust. A deep understanding that giving it up is empowering because it’s a choice that you are willing to make with your partner willingly. I have found slow burn the best connection because it truly leads to longer term engagement, both emotionally and D/s + the dynamic is really more than one can hope for with the quick and dirty. I enjoy mundane to manic, exploration to explosive and all the interest that builds in between. I am quite Demi and Sapiosexual which I get the feeling you are too.

I enjoy many different things behind closed doors but kinks are just that…one dimension of the relationship not the whole. I am attached so if that is in an issue for you I understand. I enjoy a bit of an age gap but I am open to all if the energy feels right.

I like to get to know my partner first. See what makes them tick, what they like/dislike, have some common things between them and then slowly unravel what needs unwounding. I am genuine - no games or bullshit, I have too many years on this earth to waste time with that and I know that honesty and connection are the real gems in life.

I am committed to this and so should you be - and I will respond if it seems like you are. I am 6 feet tall, brown hair & eyes and in shape.

If this sounds intriguing - let’s chat - I think this could be something incredible if you take the leap