Why don't fem gays realize that mask gays dislike them because of aesthetics (not because of trying to pander to conservatives or appear "normal")?

They people like to emulate Abercrombie & Fitch/Sean Cody aestethics, and they could not care what conservatives think about them. Obviously, conservatives will still view them as "AIDS-ridden menace" despite their looks, and they are not trying to somehow repress their femininity to appease them.