Went off on Bio Mom…

I had posted a while back about a situation I was dealing with when it came to my kids Bio Mom. And today I snapped…

Once again she asked if my husband and I could take our daughter to her eye appointment. I told her I was not able to and my husband had back to back meetings. He also had the CEO coming and it was critical he stayed there at his job (understandably). She responds with “I can’t take time off work, I’ll have to just reschedule then.” Pretty much does this 90 percent of the time when it comes to the kids…her kids btw.

I text her with “You know what Elena, I find it amusing how easy it is for you to take vacations and time off when it’s convenient for you. But you can’t ever seem to do the same for your kids when it comes to important matters? And then you always expect my husband and I to do it..where is this having the kids 50/50? Where are you doing your part? Because somehow it always falls on me. And whenever you reschedule these appointments, it just so happens you make the appointments on our week. Interesting and ironic how that works?”Her response, “What I do is none of your business. And if you guys can’t take one of them, and I can’t either, then I have to reschedule. I don’t know why you guys can’t them to their appointments? I have to work too..”

I can’t post what my response was after that…but this is what I deal with lol. She called my husband and ranted about me and what I had texted her. His response “is she wrong Elena? Make it make sense then. You take time off for yourself constantly and somehow the responsibility for our kids just falls on us. Who is the mom here? Because some days it sounds like being one is an issue? It’s such a task to take our kids to important appointments, but you can go here and there posting videos and photos of you shaking your ass with your girlfriends…” 🙊🤔 We haven’t heard from her for a few days lol. Maybe she got the point?