[M4F] Disappointing Sex Life

Marriage is a marathon, not a sprint or at least, that’s how the saying goes. In reality, our bedroom life has turned into exactly the opposite: a series of sprints that end before you've even tied your shoes. We’ve been married a long time now, and you've made my peace with the fact that sex was never going to be fireworks every night. He never won any awards for stamina or technique, but he was present, and that was enough. But in the last two years, things have shifted. The decline has been slow but steady, and lately, it feels like we’ve hit a new low.

For the better part of the last year, it doesn't matter what we do or how much we try to set the mood; the moment you touch him with your hand or he slides inside, the clock starts ticking. And that clock rarely makes it past twenty seconds. It’s over before it begins. You are left staring at the ceiling, listening to his breathing even out while still lying there, tense and unsatisfied. You're torn between being the supportive wife who tells him it’s fine, that there’s always next time, and sitting him down for a brutally honest conversation about seeing a doctor. Lately, though, he’s even taken to finishing, muttering a quick apology, and just rolling over to go to sleep. No cuddling, no effort to help you finish, just leaving you high and dry while he drifts off. It’s lonely, and you aren't sure how much longer you can pretend it isn't tearing you up.

I'm looking to explore this dynamic with someone and see where it goes. I'd prefer longer RP and am open to slice of life situations along with the disappointing sex of course. I'm open to first or third person and would love to hear any suggestions you have for this.

Some optional kinks/themese we could include besides premature ejaculation, are the reality of disappointing or boring sex, the awkwardness of aftercare, cuddling, kissing, handjobs, awkwardness of smaller penises (inability to do certain things because of size), erectile dysfunction with use of viagra/cialis.

I am open to other scenarios and aspects of disappointing sex life as well. If you have any other ideas you’d like to incorporate include them when you message.

Limits: Violence of any kind, blood, gore, piss, scat, bondage, sissification.