#marriage #crisis #kids

I am 37 age woman. We are going through a crisis in our marriage. We have two children. When my husband is upset with me, he doesn’t help me with the kids. I have to handle most things on my own. Do you think this is normal behavior? I wanted to go to therapy, but for now my husband doesn’t want to. Often, for example in the morning when getting the kids ready for preschool, I don’t get any help at all. My husband says that when he’s angry with me, he doesn’t feel like helping me. I think it’s unfair. What do you think?

TL;DR: We’re going through a marital crisis; when my husband is upset with me, he refuses to help with our two kids (especially in the mornings), I’m left handling everything alone, he won’t go to therapy —it feels unfair.