This is how your ex will read your message

If you have a text you would like to send or something you would like to tell them, think of this:

Think of a person that likes you romantically but you don't like them at all. You probably have/had one in your life. Let's call them "Y".

Imagine that that Y sent you the very text you want to send your ex.

This will hurt you, but that is how your ex will feel about that text. "i don't want anything to do with this person. I don't eant to hurt them but i want them to leave me alone"

They are checked out, possibly thinking about you sporadically, but they don't want to reach out. If they wanted to, they know exactly where to find you. But they don't do it. And that's ok. You don't do it for Y either.

Why am I telling you this? You are Y for them. Now you see both sides.

The only thing you can do is move on.