Still not over my ex situationship - ghosted after intimacy

I ( 21F ) met this guy ( 22M ) during last year around March at a bar . His friend approached my friend and then he approached me so it was like a 2 man type of situation. Initially, I wasn’t interested in having a conversation with him because he isn’t my usual type but he was persistent so I decided to give him a chance . We ended up exchanging numbers at the end of the night and then we started texting everyday ever since …. Things seemed to be going really well and although I didn’t like him at first , I started warming up to him due to his personality and also the fact that we had so much in common . I invited him over to my place two times ( I stay at a student accommodation) and on one of the times I invited him , I asked him what his intentions are with me and he said he’s just “ going with the flow “ and went on about how he’s scared to be in another relationship because he’s been burned before . I also noticed that he had started showing signs of inconsistency but I foolishly ignored it . A few months down the line , he invited me over to spend the night at his place for the first time … that’s when we shared our first kiss … I thought things would be more meaningful from there . The next morning I noticed he seemed irritable and even insisted on dropping me over to my place early but I just assumed that he probably had a busy day ahead . I texted him when I got to my place and never got a response for an entire week . He kept viewing my stories but never responded to my text message . I texted him again the following weekend and he responded coldly… I got very drunk that night and made the mistake of blowing up his phone , practically begging him to come fetch me … he made it clear to me that he can’t ( or didn’t want to ) but I was just so desperate for his attention I had to force things 🤦🏾‍♀️ He ended up fetching me at around 4 am and immediately when we got to his place , we started making out and then he asked if we can have sex . I told him that I can’t because I’ll get emotionally attached to him and he said I shouldn’t worry about that , that he’ll take care of my heart . I foolishly believed him and we had sex . The next morning , he dropped me off at my place and even promised to call me during the day and he never did . I texted him a day later to check on how he’s doing , and of course , he didn’t respond … he kept viewing my stories though … I’m still very much heartbroken about this and I don’t think I’ll ever get over it