Child custody question (traveling parent)

My ex lives 5 minutes, I live 10 minutes from our 9 year old son's school. Right now we have 50/50 custody on a 2-2-3 schedule, we are doing this for 2 years now.

My ex wants to move 45 minutes away (but in rush hour traffic it can be an hour or one hour 30 minutes too). She wants to move with his boyfriend together. The boyfriend lives even further and that is the closest he is willing to move.

I think even the 45 minutes drive twice a day is just not good for any kid, not to mention the 1 hour.

My question: if you are in a situations like this, what is your custody and your schedule?

If you went to court what was the decision of the judge?