trying this again hopefully

hi divas i have a very niche or specific kind of thing im looking for and it may be a domination spell but essentially there was this man that chased me for 2 years and i finally gave him a chance and before i realized he created this weird power imbalance and i want to turn the tables, we went no contact about 2 days ago and we’ve both blocked eachother i essentially need to bring him back into my life and gain my power and energy back in almost a jennifer’s body type way of getting it back in the same way he got it from me (through sex). while this is may be a very odd ball kind of scenario i’m sure one of you divas out there could help me and any and all advice is welcome!!!