Update 5

Update 5 :

Update 5 :

It hasn't even been 3 months since I went NC with mil and the rest of the in laws and I'm already feeling so much better mentally. Husband has been VVLC the way he was before I came into the picture.

Unfortunately I do get anxious when he mentions about any contact that's been made between them which isn't that often. I hope this feeling goes away soon.

She has tried bribing with gifts and money even after she was asked to stop.

She has asked for photos and videos but my husband hasn't shared anything with her.

Most recently she has messaged my husband asking to "bring the children" to her house and said "I'll leave it up to you".

I find this very alarming. If it was really upto us I'm sure we'd be left alone but okay.

I'm relieved my husband hasn't brought this up once. I made sure he knew how I feel about this when I went NC with his family so hopefully he can handle the pressure.