Don’t reach out and make the same mistake I did

If anyone here is contemplating reaching out after being dumped or discarded, I’m telling you whatever they say, unless they want to try again and give it a shot, do not text them, do not write that letter.

I was told all the nice things you’d like to hear from an ex….”I miss you” “I’m not closing the door on us” “I just want to hug you”. We spoke 10 days into no contact and she was cold and dismissive saying she doesn’t want a relationship w me and she’s moving on with her life. Not sure how feelings can change so drastically in 10 days.

Just keep your peace, pour that love you have into yourself and feel your emotions, I promise it’s better than giving someone else the power of being careless with you and your emotions. The last thing you want to feel on top of being hurt is being embarrassed or ashamed that you begged someone to stay.

If you’re a good person, I hope you heal and feel better. I know this is a pain I wouldn’t wish on anyone else and I hope this helps someone. ❤️❤️