I’m worried I’m forgetting something.
So, we’re technically doing a “backyard wedding”, but it’s on my grandparent’s property, we’re renting a gigantic sailcloth tent, having everything setup as it would be in a large indoor venue.
Because of this and having to supply literally everything ourselves, I’m so worried I’m forgetting crucial elements that won’t show themselves until my wedding day. Just today I realized I forgot to include a cake table in the rental order!
I’ve never even BEEN to a wedding before so ours will be my first. I’ve had to learn from scratch the timeline of the day and what’s usually done by others. I am soooo stressed and I’m so anxious that important things will be left out.
What are some random odds and ends that you’re planning on having, or did have, at your wedding that you couldn’t have done without??
Posted May 6, 2026, 11:16 PM UTC