[35M4F] seeking women frustrated by dissipointing experiences on here.

Friendship

I've been lucky to get people to respond to my DMs on here, but most message a few times and stop. I'm hoping by putting myself out there on here more, it's easier to find what I'm looking for. I really want a consistent chat partner open to talking about anything. A lot of small talk occurs in the beginning as I feel someone out, but in time no topics are considered off the table if organic and mutual. I'm mostly just bored and want someone to chat with back and forth over days, weeks or months.

I would describe myself as having an excess of personality. I beat to my own drum and people in my life just sort of laugh and shrug me off as me doing me things. I'm a Slytherin. I love comics especially the X-Men. I have built a shrine to Thier awesomeness on my work office. Ask to see pictures and you'll see what I mean by having an excess of personality. I am well educated with a degree in history and masters in a related (purposefully unspecified) field. I love word play and can carry conversations over very long periods. I find nearly everyone interesting and the conversation always die when the other person doesn't respond. I'd chat forever about whatever. I've been accused of being a Disney adult, and I suppose they're right but only because Disney parks scratch a personal intellectual itch. Understanding the logistics and mechanical function of things. It satisfies elements of my deeply curious nature. I'm also a U.S. Supreme Court nerd in Term is about to close which means decisions. I love a wide variety of music mainly in the classic rock old school metal realm and am versed well in film. Would love to trade movie suggestions. Really I'm just looking for someone as equally bored and open minded as me. I don't really care how old you are as long as you're over 18 and willing to engage in thoughtful sustained conversation. I can't believe I have to say this but half my interactions have ended with links to OF. I am not interested, so those seeking to advertise need not DM. Those who do will be met with salty savage messages.

If you've made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read this. I hope you think we'll click and find me worthy of risking one of your DM's. I always respond to everyone, even on posts I make. If I'm not the right fit for you, I sincerely hope you find whatever it is you're looking for.

Posted May 6, 2026, 11:18 PM UTC

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