men vs women reactions to clips

i just watched season 2 and now watching season 1, and somethings really bothering me/icking me out.. and i know its typical! but still!

whenever the women see clips of their boyfriends, its often something that actually crosses a big line and of course they will be really hurt. but then i see the men watching a clip of their girlfriend just talking to guys (often about their boyfriends) and just expressing what they miss/need from their man, not even flirting, the men watching the clips will all go “mannnn…. you don’t deserve that…. that hurts…..” and it’s SO frustrating because what do you mean it hurts soooooooo bad your girlfriend just says oh i wish he listened to me bc he doesnt listen to me????? and meanwhile you’re touching upon and kissing other women????😭😭😭😭😭 and then the worst part is the other just as shitty men will be like yeah this is crazy and validate them 😭😭😭

and before anyone gets mad, i definitely think some words can hurt but its more about the big contrast of their own horrible behaviour to their girlfriends.. chats..