Ask IC: Answering an abundance of questions (Part 2)

We are answering another slate of questions submitted to us. (See previous)

Hey I would like to ask a few questions about mom son relationships.

1. Are mom son relationship the most commom one?

If you’re asking if they are the most common form of incest, no it’s not. Globally, cousin incest is most common because it isn’t as regulated. In fact, cousin marriage is even encouraged in some cultures. Outside of that, while there isn’t firm statistics to know, it’s generally accepted that sibling incest is most common form of incest because of similar ages and accessibility. We believe mother-son incest is next most common (in terms of consensual) but some might disagree.

2. Can it happen to anyone?

Anyone is to broad to say yes, but it most certainly can happen to most who put in the effort and if the conditions are right. There are scenarios that seem to be more likely.

3. I know sons start most of it but do moms think about it but don't do anything?

Yes. It’s fairly common for mothers to at least contemplate sex with their sons, but they are conditioned to ignore those feelings and see them as wrong.

4. How many mothers think about their sons?

This is similar to the question before. We believe the majority of mothers have at least casual thoughts about their sons. Some of it just natural curiosity. Some of it enters the subconscious mind. But it is present in some form for nearly all mothers.

5. In your opinion should sex ed be with mom?

Mom should definitely play a major role in her son’s sex education, even if it’s just at the basic level. She is most qualified to guide her son into sexuality. It would be very helpful for a guy to learn certain details from a woman - even better if that woman is the woman he most loves and trusts.

6. Are there really open families?

The term open family can have many meanings. If you mean where everyone in the family freely have sex amongst each other without jealousy, most certainly there must be, but we haven’t heard of many specific cases of open families beyond open nudity. That doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Jealousy is a major concern with such a family though, it would take certain mindsets of all to avoid it.

7. If I know 1000 people how many of them done it with their mom or son?

There isn’t enough statistics to know for sure, and estimates vary. Most conservative estimates say at least 2% of the population have had at least one consensual incestuous experience. At least half of those are probably amongst siblings. Let’s say mother-son incest makes up half of the remaining 1% (so 0.5%, give or take). That math works out to 5 out of 1,000 people have had at least one mother-son incestuous experience. That’s based on a very conservative estimate and it’s speculated that it happens far more often than is socially accepted.

8. Is it easier to seduce mom when she have two sons and their work togehter? How my stories you heard about there being two sons?

We have heard of very few cases where a mother is sexually involved with multiple sons, especially at the same time.

9. How many people are product of mom son relationship and don't know about it and how many do know it?

It’s hard to say because most of the time the paternity is kept secret with mother-son offspring because of the strong taboo and easy concealment. Even a DNA test in itself wouldn’t necessarily provide evidence of this. It could share the genetic separation, but siblings have the same level of genetic separation so more research would be needed to identify paternity. There most definitely are mother-son offspring out there, but it’s same to assume most aren’t aware of it.