Bpd & autism, highly emotionally sensitive and reactive, lots of anger, desire to smash things, and binge drinking

What would be the meds for this person? I am on seroquel and zopiclone for my BiPolar, melatonin for my adhd.

I don't know why no one has given her anything more than low dose Ssri & propenalol, i also look at her, and my meds and it just feels like what I am on would help her too