37 [M4F] #NJ #Online - Looking for something that feels effortless

Nothing worse than thinking you found a connection but then not really. I'm ever hopeful the right fit is out there for me. I’m a married dad who’s just missing "something". I'm not 100% sure what that is but when I find it I'll know.

I’m looking for a woman who’s funny, thoughtful, and can genuinely hold a conversation. I want someone who enjoys talking about real life — how your day went, random thoughts that won’t leave your head, big ideas, dumb jokes, all of it. Obligatory not interested in changing my situation for many selfish reasons.

About me: bigger guy (I have a stomach, I'm actively working on that but it won't ever just disappear side effect of being heavy for a long time), bald with a beard, a few tattoos, and I clean up pretty well. I’m especially drawn to plus size/bbw body types. Age isn’t a huge factor for me, but I would prefer you to be in the EST or CST time zone but I wouldn't rule out something different for the right connection. I would be open to exploring something locally.

One message every few hours won't cut it if that's your consistent. I understand life gets busy and we have things to do, but sometimes we should be able to go actively back and forth in conversation, to share a phone call, or a video chat. I would like to exchange pictures fairly early on, because if you're not attracted to me let's not waste each other's time.

If you’re looking for something genuine, fun, and stress free— I’d love to hear from you.