32 [F4A] #online (europe) Looking for my maso toy but also friend

Heyyyy

I am looking for something slightly different so please actually read before you write me a generic DM showing off how you don't understand what I want.

I'm looking for a casual dynamic, playful, friendship based, sadism focused. I am looking for regular chats that mix sfw and nsfw in roughly equal parts and someone who matches on both ends.

I am poly and already partnered, open for more romantic feelings but thats NOT the main goal of this post. I am a switch but mostly looking for a masochistic submissive, if you can switch too thats a bonus but not a requirement. I am pansexual and panromantic, every gender welcome.

Kinks I have: painplay! Especially cbt and pussy torture, orgasm control (edging and ruins more than chastity), petplay, brat taming. humiliation, bondage, teasing, bullying and cnc. I have a bunch of additional kinks that I won't mention here because they only work in the right context.

Not into: Feet, Pegging, High Protocol, TPE, Micromanaging, Titles being used immediately, Scat, Sissies/Forced Fem, FLR.

I have over a decade of experience in the scene and know pretty well what I like. I want a dynamic that is eye level and maybe flirty/teasy outside of play sessions, and actual power exchange limited strictly to playtime. I am happy to send pics if I receive some back, just don't beg for it. If you act desperate/thirsty outside of a playscene I am NOT interested.

So and the nonkinky side: I am super nerdy (what a surprise if you read my name), especially into fantasy and history, I am kinda obsessed with magic/witchy stuff despite not believing in it, I play some video- and boardgames with fantasy or historical themes as well. I am highly educated and a smartass (not even sorry for it), but I actually like learning new things so if you know it better please say so and we can discuss. I am a diagnosed autist, vegetarian animal lover, casual cannabis smoker, politically interested and opinionated, but don't fit any neat ideology camp. I'm a goth in worldview and music taste, but appearance wise you'd propably place me as a boring librarian. My humor ranges from cynic to silly, and for whatever reason I manage to be an overall happy person in this strange world.

So please show me you can follow basic instructions by writing a DM that covers basic demographic information about yourself, states how much experience you have with kink and what style you enjoy, what you are like in your everyday life and what made you interested in me specifically over all those other [F4X] posts.

Hope to hear from you!