AITA to stop talking to my close friend after she cancelled a sleepover

For context, me & P have been friends since 1st day of undergrad, almost inseparable. The reason I'm mad over a stupid sleepover is that this isn't the first time IT WAS CANCELLED. We don't do a lot of sleepovers in the group, & it's totally fine. But when P always initiates a sleepover, she cancels it at the last min when I have already left the house.
You see, my parents are not as chill as others; they don't understand the concept of sudden plans, sudden changes, and i rarely get to stay out at night so i would want to make the most out of it, and all my friends, including P knew this, and I don't expect anyone to understand this. I've mentioned this to her a couple of times to give me a heads up so I can plan something ahead or just don't leave the house.

There were a couple of times when I had to crash at friends house but now that all my friends have left city for masters, I really dont have a place to go, if the plan is cancel I either have to stay on roads or go back home which only means i wouldnt get that opputunity of going out at night again if I keep cancelling my plans

this particular time she invite dme over because her parents where out and we could chill or drive around or whatever. I asked her a couple of times to confirm if the plan is still on, yes dinner & back to her place. This women decides to tell me after dinne rthat her dad drove back and we cant do a sleepover anymore

what made me mad was that her dad was attending a family thing along with her mom. I have both their numbers saved & they have posted on WhatsApp constantly about the event for a week now. Even at dinner we spoke about how much fun we were going to have at night & how will i get back hime tomorrow morning. so im allpacked and out & it was 11pm way past my parents' bedtime.

where do i go at 11 pm at night with no place to crash, no headsup, nothing

I managed to book a hostel for the night with the little money i had & went back home

3 days later she kept calling & texting me as to why I wasnt reposting ig stories from that night out to which i didnt respond, a couple of friends started texting me that i was being rude and it wasn't a big deal and within hours this turned into a big turmoil where i was being a cry baby who didnt understand my friend

AITAH for not talking to her
I didnt yell at her, didnt text back just stopped talking