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lestat1222

44[M4F] - Looking for my muse. #PA, DE, MD

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Good morning ,

New week and hopefully a new friendship/partner. The "about me" section of the post. I am 44.m from MD/PA border, married, no kids. Five words that describe me are friendly, goofy, spontaneous, traveler, and open. Humor is on the darker side, I can laugh about anything, including myself. I do like my memes. Music wise lately I have been enjoying old school punk, ska, emo, classic rock, even some oldies. I have to say I do have some eclectic tastes, but it all depends on my mood. My playlist, music, movies, and podcasts are all very random. The only music I can't get behind is some hardcore rap (modern rap). I love cooking, outdoors, and even a good audiobook. Physically I am 5'8, salt and pepper hair, blue eyes, average weight. Stay fairly active with work and in life. I try to keep myself healthy but sorry I don't have a 6 pack.

Ideally looking for someone:

- Married obviously

- Not wanting to change mine or your situation. Just wanting to fill that hole that I am missing.

- That can help with conversation. Please don't make it one sided. One word answers hurts the flow.

- That has passion in life

- Maybe a bit feisty.

- Dark sense of humor.

- Can be a goofball at times. I need that witty banter.

- Music interests all over. Share your favorite play list.

- Have some interest in something. Whatever it is.

- Location EST preferred. Makes it easier to communicate, and/or meet. However, I do travel for work all over.

- Physically I am pretty open. If you have captivating eyes and a nice smile you got me. However, personality is more important than physical.

- Hopefully you miss good morning and goodnights just as much as I do.

- But OPSEC is highly important

- Be willing to communicate daily. It's hard to grow a relationship without talking daily.

I want a single person and hope you want the same.

Well if you're interested let me know more, reach out. If interested in getting to know each other, then let me know. So I know you read this post, tell me a bit about yourself and answer this question.

If you had a soundtrack of your life, present or past. What would it be?

Happy hunting...

Posted May 7, 2026, 12:33 PM UTC

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