If it was a girl with an ex and present connection...

I am just thinking about what happened last season shubhi harsh and rushali... And this season akanksha ruru and yogesh... I noticed the amount of hate the girls received in both seasons be it rushali shubhi or akanksha ruru was way way more than what harsh and yogesh got you know... I was just thinking if it was a girl who did this with two guys she would've been butchered over the internet all over its just so scary to even imagine you know .. but how these both guys just walked away with much less than what girls faced is so I don't know what to feel about this if it were a girl I can't even imagine the amount of hate just wanted to write this...