31M - Is it weird that I dont have selfies on my instagram and I only post artwork?
31M here. I recently started talking to a 24F online. The vibes have been good, we’ve been texting a lot, and we have a date planned for Saturday. We exchanged Instagrams the other day.
Her profile is pretty standard social media stuff: selfies, friends, travel pics, etc. Mine is completely different. I don’t post selfies at all. My Instagram is basically just my artwork. I’m not really the type to take photos of myself or when I’m out with friends.
Since we exchanged Instas she’s been a bit quieter, and I’m wondering if this could be related.
So I wanted to ask: is having an Instagram with no personal photos/selfies and only art seen as weird or off-putting in dating contexts? Or am I overthinking this?
Would appreciate honest perspectives, especially from women who’ve experienced this.
Posted May 7, 2026, 12:38 PM UTC