40 [M4F] #EST - I want to see the light of all the stars in the universe in your eyes

You may not believe in soulmates and it's probably not your foremost thought but it leads us all to wonder why we are here, looking for that missing feeling hoping that true love didn't actually pass us by.

Regardless of your situation or mine we all have some level of desire to believe that there is a person who matches up with us on a level that can only be dreamed about. I want to find that and set our souls ablaze in passion or if life permits love.

I'm from southern Ontario in Canada, I have been married for approximately 7 years and with my spouse for almost 11. I won't sugarcoat it I tried to force that forever love with the wrong person and ignored all of the red flags. My situation is most likely due to change at some point that doesn't mean yours has to. Consider this my foray into life and love unbound I wish to explore what's out there and find what makes me excited again. I am tired of the baseline lack of affection, I cannot seek it in my day to day life and that brings me here to you.

I have 2 young children under 4, I am a father a provider. I am tall over 187CM (6'1" for the freedom units), I work out regularly, am active in sports and with my kids and told I am nice looking. I have recently been given the opportunity to not work for the foreseeable future and I love being a dad without the worries and time constraints. I take care of myself and appreciate the same I have an active social life and an enormous variety of hobbies. For sports I enjoy Golf (I suck please teach me), Tennis, snowboarding and pickleball. My knees would probably explode if I tried to hoop again but I will play basketball against you anytime. I love wine and fine dining I like beer and buttered noodles I am easygoing to a fault and its almost impossible to ruffle my feathers. I am 420 friendly and don't care what kind of life you enjoy, I still enjoy a good party I'm never going to be too old to enjoy life to the fullest. I believe in good wine, great food, and occasionally terrible decisions with the right person.

I want to be more than a father, more than the 'great husband.' I am a lost soul looking for my cosmic life preserver. I believe in romance and love in being seen and being heard.

My only real preference is a willingness to eventually meet, proximity helps but I hold a passport and I'm not afraid to use it. I hope you feel the same.

With Hope,