Trial wife/husband duo - DC choice right for us?

I'm trialing the game with my wife because i think she'll really enjoy it. I tried playing alone twice in my life and didn't get too far but it might be different now i have a duo.

That said, when it comes to DC's... I'm looking at Crystal or Primal ( i think). I know she'd much prefer a chill play style and crystal seems to be the choice for that but i'm worried I may want to do content and not find parties because it's the "chill RP" dc. Does this matter, will it be an issue?

It's been many many years since i've played and i'd hoped it still wasn't a big choice right off the rip, especially for new players but i guess it still is?

Cheers guys.

P.S I've never been into heavy pvp or pve in any game but i am purely only worried about FINDING teams quickly if i were to choose to.