How yall stop feeling chopped all the damn time

I'm 6'0-6'1, 180 (I look skinny, not fat, promise), with curly brown hair and all that. I have repeatedly been passed over by girls I was really close with. I have clear skin like 90% of the time and I am good enough at talking to girls that I have had multiple relationships close enough for them to call me for hours every day, yet they still passed me over for genuinely the worst, most annoying, stupidest guys I have ever met (I think I hate them because they stole the girl I like). The only reason I can conjure is that I am a chud, I can ad a picture if enough people want to see it

PS: I'm a freshman BTW, I play football, and am a generally popular guy as far as I know. I don't struggle talking to people or making friends or anything